Dr Dominique Thompsonis an award-winning former university GP, young people's mental health expert, TEDx speaker, author and educator, with two decades of clinical experience.She is a Clinical Advisor for NICE, RCGP and Student Minds.
Self-isolating may not be fun, but it doesn’t have to be awful. Follow these tips to give you a sense of achievement and help you feel in charge of your life.
It will be normal to feel a bit anxious or frustrated at the prospect of self-isolating. Given how long the pandemic has been around, you may have had to self-isolate several times before. If this is your first time or if you’re doing it in uni accommodation for the first time, it can be natural to be concerned about getting through it.
So make sure you take some time to talk to people about how you are feeling, and remember to take it one day at a time. Uncertainty makes us all a bit anxious, we are only human, but you can do this. Here’s a few ideas to get you started and feeling safe.
Top tips for staying well when self-isolating
1. Create a structure for yourself
It can feel a little overwhelming if you think about the whole block of self-isolation, or even the whole day ahead of you. So break the day up into 30 or 60 minute chunks.
You might like to write out a daily timetable of activities. This could include:
catching up with a friend
Creative activities like music, drawing, gaming, writing or photography.
Don’t forget to be active. Make sure you keep a routine for meals and get 8-9 hours sleep, as this will help you to stay healthy and calm.
Use your imagination to make each day different so you don’t become stuck in a rut and anxious about leaving your room when the time comes.
2. Stay connected
One of the most important things to do when you have to self-isolate is to have contact with other people every day. Preferably throughout the day. Not everybody has lots of friends or family to rely on for this, and you may even have been feeling a little isolated already.
Staying connected can be done in many ways. You could chat to flatmates through a closed door, or do a video call with a friend. It’s vital to remain connected to the people in your life. Messaging is fine but it’s important to see the faces of your loved ones too, so video chat, or wave out of a window and chat if they live nearby.
You could even ask your family or friends to send a care package so you have it to look forward to.
3. Find a daily purpose
Being at university means you will hopefully have a sense of long term purpose. That purpose is going to stand you in good stead, but you also need short term, or daily, purpose. A reason to get out of bed each day and keep busy.
When every day is similar, it is helpful to have activities planned. Maintain your momentum and keep studying. You could do this with:
lunch or coffee breaks
meetings related to volunteering or Students’ Union societies.
It will also mean you are still engaged with campus life when you emerge from your room!
4. Maintain a positive mentality
Staying positive is going to be really important for your wellbeing. Staying positive isn’t easy of course, and you might notice yourself drifting towards more negative thoughts, like “I hate this pandemic, it’s ruined everything”.
Take a moment to acknowledge that it is natural to be angry, frustrated or sad, but you will feel a little better if you can try to replace those thoughts with ones like:
“well at least I can watch that series I love”
“I can get started on that project I’ve been procrastinating over”
“When this is all over I’m going to treat myself to a fantastic day out or trip”
Try to think of something that really makes you feel good, focus your mind on that and feel excited as you plan for and anticipate it.
You can feel proud of getting through it, and protecting others, and it will be a bonus if you can use it productively or creatively.
You might even emerge from self-isolation with a sense of achievement, and a load of energy and ideas for the year ahead!